I haven't read Sheryl Sandberg's book, Lean In, and may not do so. But I feel that much of her advice applies to men and women. To lean it, you got to show up! Take decisions...some of them may not be easy - life rarely comes packaged that neatly. Some of them may thrill some and annoy others - there are tradeoffs to be made. Oftentimes, the timing of the decision may be more important than the quality - some things can't wait. If you are a leader, these things have to be done. Show up and lean in. Understand people and tap into their strengths. Much of what happens in organisations makes it very difficult for people to do their best. It encourages fear rather than joy! It's time to show up and lean in to change what's wrong with management and our organisations today!